5 Self Love Rituals to Feel Yourself

Cultivating self-love is important to create a positive and caring relationship with ourselves, it can bring about numerous benefits in various aspects of life. Here are some of the key benefits of cultivating self-love:

Increased self-esteem: When you genuinely love and accept yourself, you recognize your inherent value and appreciate your strengths and qualities. This, in turn, leads to greater confidence and a more positive self-perception.
Improved mental well-being: It helps you develop a more compassionate and understanding attitude, reducing self-criticism and negative self-talk. This shift in mindset can alleviate stress, anxiety, and depression, promoting emotional resilience and a greater sense of inner peace.
Resilience and personal growth: When you have a strong foundation of self-love, you are better equipped to navigate life's challenges and setbacks. You develop a belief in your ability to overcome obstacles, and setbacks are viewed as opportunities for learning and growth rather than as reflections of your self-worth.
Authenticity and self-acceptance: You embrace your true self, including your strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections, without seeking validation or approval from others. This acceptance allows you to live more authentically, aligning your actions and choices with your values and desires.
Increased happiness and fulfillment: By loving and accepting yourself unconditionally, you experience a deep sense of contentment and satisfaction. This internal happiness is not reliant on external validation or achievements but stems from genuine love and appreciation for who you are.

Cultivating self-love isn’t something that is done all at once. There are stages and steps, routines and rituals to building a deep bond within ourselves. We truly believe that incorporating small rituals into our everyday lives can result in significant changes in the long run. However, it's essential to be patient and kind with yourself as you embark on this path of self-discovery and growth.

Take yourself on a solo date

Going on a date doesn’t necessarily mean you’re doing it as a pair with someone else, sometimes it’s just more fun to go out on your own, you know, perrear sola. We’ve done a deep dive into our favorite solo date ideas, and here’s the quick-and-easy guide:

Go to the museum: Go to your local museum and take in the culture, do it at your own pace, and take your time watching that specific piece of art that you liked.
Hit the movie theater: Buy yourself a movie ticket, take a break from streaming, and watch a movie on the big screen with some snacks!
Hike the trails: You can use online resources like AllTrails to find local hiking trails at multiple difficulty levels, complete with insider reviews so you can show up prepared, take pictures, and upload them to your social media!
Spa day: Find a spa, sauna, or bathhouse near you and enjoy a steamy solo trip that leaves your body feeling refreshed, clean, and relaxed.
Buy yourself flowers: We said it before Miley did! Go to the florist and put together a custom bouquet for yourself, you deserve all the flowers that you want!
Pack a picnic: If weather permits, pack in some sandwiches, cheeses, fruits, or other portable foods and spread out a blanket in a field or park with a good book, bluetooth speaker, or maybe even something to paint.

Create an altar

An altar is a space or structure used for spiritual or religious practices, rituals, or personal reflection. Altars have been used for centuries in various cultures and belief systems around the world. To create your own altar choose three items to place that feel sacred, remind you of your fullest self, or just feel beautiful. A candle, your favorite flowers, a crystal or a stone, a written mantra you want to remember. The place you choose to create your altar is just as important as what you put in it. Remember, your home = sacred space, so find the spot that feels just right to leave your intentions.

Incorporate rose

Rose has a lengthy history as the flower of love and self-love. You could incorporate rose by using rose oil (diluted by a carrier oil, of course!) on your body, or dropped delicately into a bath or a fragrant shower. The petals are used in teas. Rose water is also a popular ingredient in desserts. If you’re prone to baking, try this Persian Love Cake recipe–it can be made gluten-free and the batter is forgiving even for the beginner baker. You can reduce the sugar, but rose water is a must!

Indulge in herb

We are no strangers to rituals involving cannabis. We’ve used it in our winter solstice rituals and gone on at length about easy ways to incorporate it into your daily routine. Whether you indulge in artisanal edibles or CBD pre-rolls, this is one herb that goes perfectly with solo vibes.

Engage in your community

Self-love isn’t about cutting yourself off from the world! Sometimes it’s best to take time for that self-care moment, but true love comes from the community that you build within yourself and around yourself.

Cultivate supportive relationships: Surround yourself with individuals who uplift and support you on your self-love journey. Seek out friends, family members, or community groups that embrace and encourage self-acceptance, empathy, and personal growth.
Engage in positive communication: Express your needs, boundaries, and emotions authentically, while also actively listening to others. Practice self-compassion in your interactions, treating yourself and others with kindness and understanding.
Participate in self-care activities together: Organize and participate in self-care activities, this can include activities such as meditation sessions, group exercise classes, creative workshops, or nature walks.

Remember, self-love is an individual journey, and each person's needs and practices may vary. Respect the diverse experiences and perspectives, and be mindful of creating an inclusive and accepting environment for everyone. Small gestures can go a long way.